15 Ways to Mind Your Business Manners
1. Dont send a LinkedIn invitation without personalizing the note. (OK, this one was mine. Its the height of laziness to skip this common-sense and common-courtesy step.)
2. If someone facilitates an e-introduction, thank the person who introduced you and take the initiative to reach out to the person youve been introduced to. Dont let these go stale.
3. Jamming business cards into peoples hands at networking events isnt networking. Introduce yourself, ask about the other party and listen.
4. One conversation at a time in group settings. Always. Forever. Always.
5. Say thank you constantly and mean it. Say it in person, via email, in social media settings everywhere.
6. We all know that Thank You in your email signature is in your email signature. Theres something less genuine about that. Type it out yourself so it doesnt look like you put it in your email signature because youre too lazy to type it out!
7. Auto DM messages on Twitter are generally not appreciated and frankly, they feel disingenuous.
8. Executive Recruiters, we know you work for yourself first, the client second and the candidate not at all. However, you have a professional obligation to loop back with candidates. These are peoples lives and livelihoods you are dealing with here.
9. HR Managers and Hiring Executives, see the comment on Executive Recruiters and follow up.
10. For all of us: quit effing around with the smartphone when you are SUPPOSED TO BE ENGAGING with (listening to, talking with) other humans.
11. Beware overuse of I in your conversations. Every I is amplified 10 decibels above your other words and after a few, we grow deaf to your message.
12. The third stall on the right (or any stall) in any restroom is not the place to hold a phone conversation.
13. Listen better.
14. Smile more.
15. Walk into a room and portray a demeanor of Youre here and Im honored to see you, instead of the royal, Im here and you should be honored to see me. Trust me, we sense which one you are portraying.
Courtesy given freely and genuinely pays handsome dividends many times over. What a great investment! Lets bring professional courtesy back.
And to those of you who stop by to read and to share your wisdom, Thank You. -Art
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The issue of professional courtesy (or seeming lack thereof) came up at a recent networking group meeting with Information Management blogger Art Petty. Art shares the spontaneous suggestion list generated in that meeting, including ideas for live and social media settings. You can easily intuit the pet peeves that led to the suggestions.
Please strive to put these into practice and add your ideas to the list here.